21 Questions To Ask A Guy
Questions are the most amazingly simple things that we can come up with when we want to learn about someone else.
Dale Carnegie in his timeless bestselling book, "How to win friends and influence people" talks about the amazing power of asking good questions to show that we are interested in someone else.
You've probably been to a party and you've been the one asking the questions and doing most of the listening? If you have you will probably attest that the other person thought that the conversation was quite interesting - funny that! You probably did less that 20% of the talking but you got 100% of the credit!
If you're a guy and ask some great questions, you will often find yourself leap-frogging to final base, thus saving yourself a lot of legwork trying to build rapport with her. Asking questions and listening is one of the most naturally flattering things you can do to anyone.
If you are a lady and want to stroke a guy's ego and make him feel good then ask lots of interesting questions and then listen to the answers. You will have the guy on a string from there on!
Despite the ego-stroking that can happen, if you ask and listen there is also a genuine side to the picture as well. Because people who're genuinely interested in someone else, are the people who are usually popular and well liked. Faking interest is the worst thing you can do. And at the end of the day, if you are not a natural listener then put yourself to the test and practice. You will start to learn SO much about so many things and you will discover parts of people that are just SO interesting to learn about.
Here's 21 questions to ask to get conversation jump-started. They have been written from a female perspective, just switch them around if you are a guy and want to use them. If nothing else it will get you thinking about your own questions - which are always better.
Here's 21 questions to ask a guy or a girl to get you started
1. If you're a waiter and a customer was super rude, would you spill food accidentally on them or think about doing this?
2. What is you all time favourite book and why?
3. If you could choose to have dinner with 5 people (real of fictional) who would you invite and why?
4. If in an instant you could become an invisible man, where would you go and what would you do?
5. If someone made a funny comedy movie about your life, which part of the story would be the funniest and why?
6. What was your fondest television character when you were a young child? What was it that you liked about them?
7. If there was something that you missed doing in this lifetime what was it?
8. What's the funniest experience in your whole entire life?
9. Have you ever gone on a date with someone who is so much taller or smaller than you, and if so how did you get on kissing?
10. How old were you when you had your first proper date and did you kiss them?
11. What's the most horrible lie you have ever told someone in your life? Where you caught out and who was it that you told it to?
12. If you instantly turned into a woman for a day, how would you spend that day?
13. If you do not like someone what do you normally do, show it or hide it and why?
14. What is more important to you in a woman - good looks or intelligence?
And now let's get a little more risqu! Obviously you would have had a few drinks before asking some of these questions!
15. Have you ever been caught with your pants down in a public place - if so what were you doing?
16. What's the difference between making love and having sex for you and which do you prefer?
17. If you could suddenly change the age you lost your virginity, would you?
18. What's your biggest sexual 'turn-ons' and 'turn-offs'?
19. Were you ever unfaithful with your partner? If so did they find out and if so what did they do?
20. Has anyone ever caught you playing with yourself? If they did what did you do?
21. Have you ever serial sex - with one person and then been with a different person somewhere else within the same day?
Dale Carnegie in his timeless bestselling book, "How to win friends and influence people" talks about the amazing power of asking good questions to show that we are interested in someone else.
You've probably been to a party and you've been the one asking the questions and doing most of the listening? If you have you will probably attest that the other person thought that the conversation was quite interesting - funny that! You probably did less that 20% of the talking but you got 100% of the credit!
If you're a guy and ask some great questions, you will often find yourself leap-frogging to final base, thus saving yourself a lot of legwork trying to build rapport with her. Asking questions and listening is one of the most naturally flattering things you can do to anyone.
If you are a lady and want to stroke a guy's ego and make him feel good then ask lots of interesting questions and then listen to the answers. You will have the guy on a string from there on!
Despite the ego-stroking that can happen, if you ask and listen there is also a genuine side to the picture as well. Because people who're genuinely interested in someone else, are the people who are usually popular and well liked. Faking interest is the worst thing you can do. And at the end of the day, if you are not a natural listener then put yourself to the test and practice. You will start to learn SO much about so many things and you will discover parts of people that are just SO interesting to learn about.
Here's 21 questions to ask to get conversation jump-started. They have been written from a female perspective, just switch them around if you are a guy and want to use them. If nothing else it will get you thinking about your own questions - which are always better.
Here's 21 questions to ask a guy or a girl to get you started
1. If you're a waiter and a customer was super rude, would you spill food accidentally on them or think about doing this?
2. What is you all time favourite book and why?
3. If you could choose to have dinner with 5 people (real of fictional) who would you invite and why?
4. If in an instant you could become an invisible man, where would you go and what would you do?
5. If someone made a funny comedy movie about your life, which part of the story would be the funniest and why?
6. What was your fondest television character when you were a young child? What was it that you liked about them?
7. If there was something that you missed doing in this lifetime what was it?
8. What's the funniest experience in your whole entire life?
9. Have you ever gone on a date with someone who is so much taller or smaller than you, and if so how did you get on kissing?
10. How old were you when you had your first proper date and did you kiss them?
11. What's the most horrible lie you have ever told someone in your life? Where you caught out and who was it that you told it to?
12. If you instantly turned into a woman for a day, how would you spend that day?
13. If you do not like someone what do you normally do, show it or hide it and why?
14. What is more important to you in a woman - good looks or intelligence?
And now let's get a little more risqu! Obviously you would have had a few drinks before asking some of these questions!
15. Have you ever been caught with your pants down in a public place - if so what were you doing?
16. What's the difference between making love and having sex for you and which do you prefer?
17. If you could suddenly change the age you lost your virginity, would you?
18. What's your biggest sexual 'turn-ons' and 'turn-offs'?
19. Were you ever unfaithful with your partner? If so did they find out and if so what did they do?
20. Has anyone ever caught you playing with yourself? If they did what did you do?
21. Have you ever serial sex - with one person and then been with a different person somewhere else within the same day?
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